Big purchase
My wise mother told me that at this time we shouldn’t go out and make any big decisions. And when did I ever listen to my mother, so we went out and bought a car! Long had I been scheming to make this purchase. When a mechanic confirmed that our trusty VW was on its last legs, a certain reluctant person in the house, caved. Isn’t she pretty?

Director
I’ve finally been given the title to the job I’ve been doing for the last two years. Go figure—it’s the government. The title will tell people that someone besides me, wants me to be in this job officially, permanently. Not to be ungrateful, but it feels a bit anticlimactic.
Alien foot
Rocky had been hobbling around with what looked like a severely ingrown toenail. We thought that maybe he had caught it on something out in the yard and that it might fall off and a new one grow back in its place. The vet thought so too. Then she discovered that there was a bone fracture and possibly a cyst down in there. She decided to remove the nail completely. It had been bandaged and rebandaged for weeks while it was healing. Last weekend when the bandage fell off, I gasped. His toe was gone! Someone should have warned me! My baby has an alien foot!
Road trip
We packed up and headed north for a few days. It was an opportunity to be around family and for them to be around us. My son got to see his other grandmother who he’s seen only once before. Darrow got to take care of family things. The change of scenery did us good. We had fun with all of the kids, we reconnected with everyone there, and we forgot for a time. We got famous when the photo from the Memorial Day Parade below, appeared in the local paper.
Then had a loooong ride home. It ended way too fast.






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June 3, 2011 at 8:24 am
constellation
-swoon- I LOVE that photo of you two! That blissed out expression on your baby’s face says so much.
Dog surgeries are totally scary. My westie just had to get one of his big upper fangs pulled-now he has a lopsided facial expression. (I guess it gives us all a chance to spoil our dogs a bit more rotten than normal, hey?). What a scary thing, though. Hope that it heals up nicely-and fast!
My husband and I are crazy about our honda civic. We love that it’s speedy, and it gets seriously sweet mileage. And I had an art professor once that had over 400,000 miles on hers before she sent it out to pasture. Enjoy it!
June 3, 2011 at 11:17 am
Mark
What a great photo. I dream of taking pictures like that.
Congrats on the new title! Although, I guess, it doesn’t change a thing. I’m glad that you are keeping up with your writing of this blog. Mark
June 3, 2011 at 2:02 pm
Knot
I know I don’t know you personally, save for the few communications we’ve had. But I just wanted to tell you that I’m proud of you. It’s not easy to go forward, but you are doing it. Because you have to, I understand. But, you are doing it anyway. Keep going. You’ll get there. It will take a lot of time.
My best to you all.
June 3, 2011 at 8:37 pm
EG
I don’t even know you in real life but I LOVE that photo of you and Lucas!
Also, congrats on the promotion even if it doesn’t feel like one! And congrats on the new car!
And yeah, they definitely should have told you that they removed your dog’s TOE! I almost didn’t want to own a dog because of the difficult decisions that would eventually come. But here we are with torn-up sofas and black dust (dog-hair) bunnies floating around our house.
June 3, 2011 at 9:34 pm
Dan
cute practical new car
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June 7, 2011 at 11:00 am
Brian
Love the new car! I’ve had a Civic for a year-and-a-half already, and I adore it. Great gas mileage, dependability, good looks… what’s not to love? =)
June 8, 2011 at 5:40 pm
Jade
The local paper had better be nice to you now, I bet they sold out! What a lovely picture, so precious. I’m glad you’re finding ways to smile again, even though the pain is still so present. You are some very strong daddies. Hug to you all, Jade
October 24, 2011 at 9:54 pm
Frances & Dad
Can’t wait to meet Lucas and of course to see you and Darrow too
January 30, 2012 at 7:18 am
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