
I didn’t know just how small he would be
–mind you, he was born full-term, and he is average with a birth weight of six pounds
–his feet, I think, are the most surprisingly small

I didn’t think that it would all be this easy
–he eats well
–he is comforted easily
–he sleeps like a child much older than someone just three weeks old

I was a little unsure about the attachment to a newborn
–in the beginning our interactions seemed one-sided
–he caught me unaware last night, with big daddy tears

I didn’t realize how much our “1st born” has become a real little boy
–he seems so big now when I pick him up
–he has catapulted from being needy to largely independent, overnight
–he wants to help do everything including caring for Lucas

Nobody told me that I would love T even more than I already do
–he is the first, and still here

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October 31, 2009 at 3:10 pm
kate
oh man you made me cry!
October 31, 2009 at 6:21 pm
EG
That picture of Darrow with him is priceless. So happy for you four.
November 1, 2009 at 12:29 am
Kimberly
Wow…. I have been reading your guys’ blog since I first saw it on Babble. I am so incredibly happy for you two! You made me cry as well… Good luck with baby number two, and I pray every night for you and T., he is going to be an awesome big brother!
November 1, 2009 at 1:05 pm
C
I’ve been reading you since Babble, too. I’m so happy for you. The fact that you’ve made your way to this, mostly with dignity and grace, gives the rest of us hope. And those two little boys are so lucky to have such wonderful parents. Thanks for sharing with us all in the quasi-community of the blogosphere.
November 2, 2009 at 2:10 pm
Melissa
He. Is. Precious!
November 2, 2009 at 2:17 pm
Clementine
Precious. And many blessings to your family of four.
November 2, 2009 at 4:45 pm
emilyhall
this just about made my day.
November 5, 2009 at 4:31 pm
Brandi
Big Congrats to you all. Ty is going to love having a little brother
November 11, 2009 at 3:30 pm
Marie-Eve
Oh my, you caught me off guard here -crying at work. Have been following your story since Babble, and this post of just the sweetest, most amazing things… Congratulations to all the family!
December 17, 2009 at 4:30 pm
Oz
Congratulations to you all!
January 20, 2010 at 12:36 am
Nancy Britos
I love this, I love this!! I have read this tonight and I am so moved by this entry. Yes, I got so choked up, my husband just asked me what was wrong
. However, I know this story intimately. I am the person lucky enough to have had T in my child care program for 1 1/2 yrs and I am now lucky enough to have this beautiful baby with me during the day. T is a loving big brother and this family unit is most extraordinary!!
January 20, 2010 at 1:15 am
Nancy
And yes….. he has adorable feet
October 6, 2010 at 7:12 am
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